ASSALAMUALAIKUM, HELLO
ANYEONG HASEYO, KONICHIWA, BONJOUR, HOLA
After a long time, finally i manage to write new blog entry...and guess what?? this time i'm writing my blog in the month of Ramadan... Ramadan always makes me feel pure and be grateful with what i have in my life in my life... well, that is what Ramadan's purpose is...n i feel so lucky to be in it.. Alhamdulillah..
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what i'm about to write in this post is not involving other.. its just a plain opinion..
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Relationship is about 2 people that had feelings toward each other.. share the same dream, love and affections.. but what happen if a third person suddenly appear in your relationship??
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i dare to speak about this topic since i've been in a triangle love and also being a third person.. i do understand what to feel when your partner cheated on you and the partner cheated because of you... some people might burst in anger when they find out that their partner cheated on them.. i will tell you mine...
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1stly,, my partner cheated on me... i guess not me oneself experience the same thing.. its not even happen to me but it happen in my family.. what do i feel?? anger, disappointment, sad.. everything mix up and sometimes when u think too much,, its choking you because of the heartache.. am i right?? probably you want to tell the whole world and to the third person that your partner is a JERK.. when it involve the world, its feel like you are openly open your personal life to others... personal thing should be keep by yourself... people might think that you are pathetic and just doing it for attention..good things will come after a bad weather.. just don't fight it.. he/she is the one who loss for having another relationship while dating/marry you.. i know its nor easy because its involve with the person that we love but revenge can't help you get your partner back.. you just make them run away from you... besides its affect other persons..
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always remember that when we grieve, there a more people grieve for worst than what we grieve for..
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2ndly, being a third person.. i have been in love with someone that are in relationship with his partner.. and i surprise that he have the same feeling like what i feel towards him.. in the same time i feeling guilty, uncomfortable with what i feel.. i just feel sorry for the girl but he insisting to take control of all this triangle love stuff.. sometimes i've been thinking why he risking on lying on his girlfriend and be with me? and why i'm risking my feelings for to be in this relationship? .. its a really bad feelings and sometimes i feel depress just to think about it... if your partner willingly leave you to be with someone else.. its mean that there are something wrong with the you and your relationship... no one is perfect but we can change it... i decided to walk away from the relationship, because he can't leave his partner... if he loves me then he will come with me... i know i admit that i'm the bitch... but i don't want to be that 'bitch" forever...
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i know i'm not a love doctor or relationship consultant ... but sometimes experience do teach us something.. to appreciate people more, to love and accept whatever you have.. and even how to choose your partner wisely.. this world is not a fairy tales that we used to read when we were still little.. but i believe there are always a fairy tales to tell in every story in your life..
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MATE is god's will and sooner or later you may find your mate.. each person has its own mate.. and to meet one need times and patience.. me?? i'm glad if i find someone that will take care for me.. but for that i will wait for the right person to do so
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Relationship is about 2 people that had feelings toward each other.. share the same dream, love and affections.. but what happen if a third person suddenly appear in your relationship??
.
.
.
i dare to speak about this topic since i've been in a triangle love and also being a third person.. i do understand what to feel when your partner cheated on you and the partner cheated because of you... some people might burst in anger when they find out that their partner cheated on them.. i will tell you mine...
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1stly,, my partner cheated on me... i guess not me oneself experience the same thing.. its not even happen to me but it happen in my family.. what do i feel?? anger, disappointment, sad.. everything mix up and sometimes when u think too much,, its choking you because of the heartache.. am i right?? probably you want to tell the whole world and to the third person that your partner is a JERK.. when it involve the world, its feel like you are openly open your personal life to others... personal thing should be keep by yourself... people might think that you are pathetic and just doing it for attention..good things will come after a bad weather.. just don't fight it.. he/she is the one who loss for having another relationship while dating/marry you.. i know its nor easy because its involve with the person that we love but revenge can't help you get your partner back.. you just make them run away from you... besides its affect other persons..
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always remember that when we grieve, there a more people grieve for worst than what we grieve for..
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2ndly, being a third person.. i have been in love with someone that are in relationship with his partner.. and i surprise that he have the same feeling like what i feel towards him.. in the same time i feeling guilty, uncomfortable with what i feel.. i just feel sorry for the girl but he insisting to take control of all this triangle love stuff.. sometimes i've been thinking why he risking on lying on his girlfriend and be with me? and why i'm risking my feelings for to be in this relationship? .. its a really bad feelings and sometimes i feel depress just to think about it... if your partner willingly leave you to be with someone else.. its mean that there are something wrong with the you and your relationship... no one is perfect but we can change it... i decided to walk away from the relationship, because he can't leave his partner... if he loves me then he will come with me... i know i admit that i'm the bitch... but i don't want to be that 'bitch" forever...
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i know i'm not a love doctor or relationship consultant ... but sometimes experience do teach us something.. to appreciate people more, to love and accept whatever you have.. and even how to choose your partner wisely.. this world is not a fairy tales that we used to read when we were still little.. but i believe there are always a fairy tales to tell in every story in your life..
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MATE is god's will and sooner or later you may find your mate.. each person has its own mate.. and to meet one need times and patience.. me?? i'm glad if i find someone that will take care for me.. but for that i will wait for the right person to do so
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that's all.. and Salam Ramadan... 2 weeks to go before Eid and have a blessing day..
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AU REVIOR, ASSALAMUALAIKUM, SAYONARA, ADIOS
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AU REVIOR, ASSALAMUALAIKUM, SAYONARA, ADIOS
salam ramadhan ira.
ReplyDeleteall in all, jodoh itu mutlak rahsia Allah...
ada yang sudah dekat, tiba-tiba menjauh, ada yang jauh tiba-tiba mendekat, ada yang sudah sayang tiba-tiba membenci, ada yang sudah nak menikah tiba-tiba bergaduh, ada yang tidak kenal sebelumnya tiba-tiba menjadi jodohnya. itulah rahsia jodoh.
tugas kita adalah berusaha dengan cara baik.
tugas kita adalah berusaha dengan menjadi baik.
tugas kita adalah menerima apapun keputusan terbaik menurut Allah.
dan satu hal jangan kita abaikan,
jangan pernah merasa penat, meminta dan terus meminta melalui DOA kepada Nya.
in sha Allah, He will give us the right person at the right time.
:)
thnk u aziey.. jodoh itu pasti ada.. yang membezakannye tu lambat atau cepat..thank you~~
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