Everything will be fine

Assalamualaikum, Bonjour, Anyeong Haseyo, 

so, finally i'm back..after a long busy and hectic weeks, i get to write new entry for my blog. so what is actually happen during my absence of not writing blog is i broke up with my boyfriend. it was devastating and heart broken but i got over it already. heart broken is a really dangerous if it doesn't find how to cope with it. some people just wanna feel to die because they cannot be with their love ones. STOP if you have that kind of thought because life is precious, just don't waste it on some bitch or assholes.

well, like i said i have got over this heart broken thing. it was sad at first but later, everything is fine..as long as u don't think of doing anything stupid.. here, i list out several tips on how to get through heart break

1. Accepting what happen n move on..

it is true that its hard to forget the person that we love the most, spent time the most, and feel the most. once you have broken heart, accept what happen and be patience because TIME will mend the broken heart. if u can't accept what is happen, just think that u were free from a terrible monster, or some assholes who try to stab your back. Don't worry. you will find someone better and its worth to wait for it

2. spend times with happy people

spending times with happy people is good especially u were sad n gloomy for 24/7 non-stop. this is because happy people release positive charge n create a happening environment. it will makes us feel happy too. and who knows u might find some hottie flirting and fall for you. 

3. make plans

make plans for your going to do and want you want to do. for example, travelling, or taking any extreme sport. it will makes u busy and forgot about your exes. and feel alive to do achieve your to-do lists.

4. avoid sad, sappy song

i, myself believe in this one. this is from my experience and it eventually work. imagining yourself driving, or sit on a bus while listen to sad song. it will be free-production, non-profitable music video. trust me, i've been there. happy song do works and retain your good mood and happiness. or maybe just bust into any good club or party, it will help to forget him/her.

5. just open yourself to a new relationship but don't just 'rebound'

the meaning of rebound is attaching to or overly attached to.  having a new relationship may help you to fill the 'emptiness' that you feel after heartbroken but just don't to attached with the person because you surely don't wanna get hurt for second time.

so, that is all the tips from me,just be strong and show to the jerk that dump you that you can do well without him.. life comes only once and its precious.. as for me, still healing but fine.. and happy with myself.. it just make me realize that i am more than what i think..thank you, heartbroken

thats all from me, and keep being happy.. spread the love..thank you for reading.

Au reviour, Bye, 

Random Ramadan #101

ASSALAMUALAIKUM, HELLO

ANYEONG HASEYO, KONICHIWA, BONJOUR, HOLA

After a long time, finally i manage to write new blog entry...and guess what?? this time i'm writing my blog in the month of Ramadan... Ramadan always makes me feel pure and be grateful with what i have in my life in my life... well, that is what Ramadan's purpose is...n i feel so lucky to be in it.. Alhamdulillah..

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 what i'm about to write in this post is not involving other.. its just a plain opinion.. 
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Relationship is about 2 people that had feelings toward each other.. share the same dream, love and affections.. but what happen if a third person suddenly appear in your relationship??
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i dare to speak about this topic since i've been in a triangle love and also being a third person.. i do understand what to feel when your partner cheated on you and the partner cheated because of you... some people might burst in anger when they find out that their partner cheated on them.. i will tell you mine...
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1stly,, my partner cheated on me... i guess not me oneself experience the same thing.. its not even happen to me but it happen in my family.. what do i feel?? anger, disappointment, sad.. everything mix up and sometimes when u think too much,, its choking you because of the heartache.. am i right?? probably you want to tell the whole world and to the third person that your partner is a JERK..  when it involve the world, its feel like you are openly open your personal life to others... personal thing should be keep by yourself... people might think that you are pathetic and just doing it for attention..good things will come after a bad weather.. just don't fight it.. he/she is the one who loss for having another relationship while dating/marry you.. i know its nor easy because its involve with the person that we love but revenge can't help you get your partner back.. you just make them run away from you... besides its affect other persons..
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always remember that when we grieve, there a more people grieve for worst than what we grieve for..
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2ndly, being a third person.. i have been in love with someone that are in relationship with his partner.. and i surprise that he have the same feeling like what i feel towards him.. in the same time i feeling guilty, uncomfortable with what i feel.. i just feel sorry for the girl but he insisting to take control of all this triangle love stuff.. sometimes i've been thinking why he risking on lying on his girlfriend and be with me? and why i'm risking my feelings for to be in this relationship? .. its a really bad feelings and sometimes i feel depress just to think about it... if your partner willingly leave you to be with someone else.. its mean that there are something wrong with the you and your relationship... no one is perfect but we can change it... i decided to walk away from the relationship, because he can't leave his partner... if he loves me then he will come with me... i know i admit that i'm the bitch... but i don't want to be that 'bitch" forever...
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i know i'm not a love doctor or relationship consultant ... but sometimes experience do teach us something.. to appreciate people more, to love and accept whatever you have.. and even how to choose your partner wisely.. this world is not a fairy tales that we used to read when we were still little.. but i believe there are always a fairy tales to tell in every story in your life..

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MATE is god's will and sooner or later you may find your mate.. each person has its own mate.. and to meet one need times and patience.. me?? i'm glad if i find someone that will take care for me.. but for that i will wait for the right person to do so
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that's all.. and Salam Ramadan... 2 weeks to go before Eid and have a blessing day..
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AU REVIOR, ASSALAMUALAIKUM, SAYONARA, ADIOS

Asian ghost stories...!!!

ASSALAMUALAIKUM, KONICHIWA

ANYEONG HASEYO, BONJOUR

as the title for this post..i decided that i want to write what i like the most...GHOST STORIES...so i googled and searched in the internet for a good Asian ghost stories..so basically the stories are not mine... so Asia is a country full with diversity n cultures..so every country have its own superstitious and belief in their culture...as in Malaysia, we have a superstitious that kids are not allowed to play outside when its getting dark..if the kids were do so, they will be capture by 'Hantu Kopek' and never see their families ever again...what is 'Hantu Kopek'? i think its ghost with large and long boobs..?? i never see one so i can't describe one..*don't laugh*

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here goes nothing

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1) Mae Nak Pra Khanong (Lady Nak of Pra Khanong)

this story originally come from Thailand. The story began with a young and beautiful girl named Nak. she is happily married with her husband, Tid Mak. one day, Mak were called to serve for the army and leave Nak with baby in her belly. As to be fate, Nak were dead while giving birth to her baby. since Nak loves her husband so much, she wants to 'stay'. When Mak came home from the army, he found out that her wife and child were waiting for him, not knowing that Nak is actually a ghost. Everyone in the village scared to tell Mak about his ghost wife because Nak will kill whoever told to her husband that she was already dead.

One day, as Nak were cooking in the kitchen, a lime fell from the porch and she tried to grab it. In her haste, she elongated her hand to pick the lime. Mak saw it and scared of his dead wife and leave to a holy temple, hoping that his ghost wife can't enter the shrine. Nak know about it and went furious and killed the villagers of Pra Khanong. Later, Nak's ghost were captured by a powerful exorcist and put it in a jar and throw it into the river. The story were so popular due to its devotion toward her husband. they also build a shrine for her.

2) Split Mouth Woman (Kuchisake-Onna)

A story from Japan urban legend, about a woman who wear surgical mask (its not weird because people wear surgical mask in Japan is common) wondering around in the night. if there are any little kid walking alone in the night, she will stop and ask the kid while showing her split-ed mouth "am i beautiful?"

if the kid reply no, she will take out her big scissors and kill her/him. but what if the kid say yes, well...you might say that kid will be safe. no bloody killing happen. wrong!. she will take out her scissors and cut the mouth like hers. the moral value from this is, Don' walk alone at night because you might have split-ed mouth like Kuchisake-Onna.

3) The sweet girl of Ancol bridge.

the story is originally comes from Indonesia. It is a story about a poor girl named Maryam. Maryam worked as a servant for a wealthy family. when she turned sixteen, her beauty  were so captivated, her boss wants her to be he concubine (mistress). she refused the offer and runaway from the house. as she looking for place to stay, an another rich guy found her and make some advance ( beautiful people were wanted everywhere i guess), but then she rejected the offer. Anger by the rejection, the rich man sent his thugs. Maryam was raped and killed by the suitors, and dumped her her body in the nearby rice field.

some say that they saw an apparition of a women near the bridge. the one who saw her especially male motorist might have an accident.

4) the virgin ghost (Cho-nyo-Gwishin)

this Korean urban legend are everywhere. it can be found in abandoned buildings, especially in school, hospital, wooded area and guess what, also in the bathroom. they have this long hair covering their face and wear white garbs. you will know of its presence when there is sudden change of a temperature, wind change directions, and feel sudden chills.

there is a story about the virgin ghost. there once a man who live in top most floor of an apartment ( i'm thinking about what i saw in Korean drama). One night, the man woke up for someone has knocked his door. he asked who is at the door then the voice said count to 100 with eyes closed and don't make any sound or else, die. when the man opened his door. he found there was no one on the door. Being a superstitious, the man closed his eyes and start counted to 100. being curious, by the number 49, he opened his eyes and the ghost were in front of him. i think you can know what happen to the man.

that's all from now, i'm thinking about sharing Malaysian ghost stories. let me think about it (actually i'm a bit scared) so have fun reading. this is just for fun. and don't forget to lock your bedroom's door tonight.

SAYONARA, AU REVIOR

ASSALAMUALAIKUM, BYE

How to speak in a good english

Assalamualaikum, Anyeong haseyo

Bonjour, Hola

finally i have time to update my blog.. this time it will a bit educational.. since its about english.. so the language of this entry will be completely in English...if u don't understand any content in this entry,, u may refer to google translate..thank u..

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i was raise in my own English environment.. for some parents they will send their children to any tuition center or any English based kindergarten...but me?? my mom and dad only feed me with cartoon..some parents might say "what? cartoon??"... my mom and dad let me watched

 

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or any English language cartoon..

my mom told me that i will try to catch up and try to pronounce with the words from that show.. don't believe me?? go and ask my mom and dad

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my first English reading material is

Tadaaaa... this is my 1st English book.. think this is the hottest children book in 90's...i used to ask my dad to read it for me..early education is important in early age... since that i was totally in love with English..got good marks in English and...i even continue my study in English.. can u see how passionate i am??

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well how to speak in a really good English??... the main problem i see in Malaysia is they know the word they understand the word..but they were to afraid to use it... why?? 

they scared that it may sound stupid

they scared that they will make mistakes

they stuck to their mother tongue

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i guess not only in Malaysia but other part of non English speaker does. well here is some tips that probably might help you..

1) listen to english songs

 listening to any english songs might help you in having a good pronunciation... this is what i do most of the time.. when u take a ride in my car.. trust me..english songs only..its help you with new word and new way to pronounce words correctly

2) watching movies

watching movies also can help u with ur English too...if you are not really good with any English word u can watch it with subtitle.. just for the sake of education and...understanding too??..

3) practice makes perfect

well don't be scared to practice on ur own... like when u were driving or alone at home or room... try to talk alone using only English word..trust me.. i'm still doing it till now... in my bathroom...alone

4) read English material

this is the hardest thing that people might want to do..READ..reading will help you in enhancing your vocabulary, grammar and pronunciation... its a package..some words can be hard to understand but that is what DICTIONARY for... don't be scared to get a hold on dictionary.. i always ask my students to bring their dictionary..

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thats all... i hope this can help u in ur English...doesn't matter if u have accent or no accent..what the most important thing is people can understand it..even though Mandarin is trying to catch up as no 1 language in the world.. i guess people all over the world still need English to communicate.. good luck!!!

Gracias, Assalamualaikum

Au Revior, Bye